A girlfriend of mine once said, “To be female and living on The Upper East Side (of Manhattan) is by definition — to be eating disordered“.
It wasn’t as funny a statement as it should have been — because in the circles we traveled in — it was actually true.
(Manhattanites will also appreciate this gem from that same friend…she used to call Tasti D-Lite Stores — “a beacon for the eating disordered“…I love TD, but it’s really true!)
And from the emails that I’m getting from women all over these days, I think that there is far more borderline eating disordered behavior among women in this country than anyone believes.
Not really a stretch of the imagination when you consider that:
- According to some studies as much as 97% of women are unhappy with their bodies.
- Models whose bodies represent 2-5% of the world’s women are touted as the ultimate goal of womanhood in the media.
- It seems like the celebrities whom thousands of young girls idolize are coming clean about their body image problems every day.
My friend and I were both in our mid 20s at the time (I’m 29 now ;-), both teaching “aerobics” (that was old skool for “group exercise”) and both recovering from various issues with food. She was a former professional dancer who had dabbled in both anorexia and bulimia.
I was never a full-fledged anorexic, but I was as close as you can get without falling over the edge. I was aspiring (but failed) bulimic, having tried a few times to make myself throw-up with no success. Virtually every woman we knew had issues with eating, food and their body image.
One of our friends (a group fitness instructor) was a serious exercise bulimic. She would literally spend two hours at a time on the stairmaster after teaching fitness classes all day long. Her weight would swing back and forth 20-30 pounds in the seeming flash of an eye. Lose-gain, lose-gain. Then she would be seen by various people at odd times (like 9 AM) in some random out-of- the way dinner eating huge amounts of chocolate cake.
Later, this fitness professional actually took up smoking, because it helped her lose weight. And finally, and most tragically..apparently, she got addicted to heroine and cocaine…true story…her health meant nothing to her. It was all about looking a certain way.
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